Name: Jaime Urquiza
Age: 49
Cares For: Marta Urquiza, Mother
Your Turn to Care Episode: "The Talk"
His Story: The eldest of the three sons, Jaime is the "fix it" man: handyman, mechanic, electrician. His skills come in handy as the family refurbishes their mother's home, making it safe and comfortable, considering always her health, age and need for security.
Reflections: "I'm really proud of her for trying to just battle, to keep her strength, and try to do all the right things to stay healthy...I'm more focused on how can I help to make this more of a quality time for all of us."
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