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Role Reversal: COVID Increases Ranks of Child Caregivers

Rhianna changes her father's trach tube at their dining table. Her mother, Rocio, watches over. They're all seated in a powder blue room.
Rocio watches over Rhianna to make sure she takes the correct steps to change her father’s trach tube, which must be done once a month. “I’ve been slowly teaching her for the past year,” Rocio said. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline
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This story was originally published March 16, 2021 by California Healthline.

Este artículo está disponible en español aquí.

LONG BEACH — On a recent Thursday afternoon, Rhianna Alvarado struggled to don her protective gloves, which were too big for her petite hands.

With her mom coaching her every move, she edged close to her father and gently removed the plastic tube from his throat that allows him to breathe. She then cautiously inserted a new one.

"What's next?" asked her mom, Rocio Alvarado, 43.

"I know, I know," replied Rhianna, her eyes constantly searching for her mom’s approval.

Rhianna is only 13. When she finished the delicate task of changing her father's tracheostomy tube, usually performed only by adults, she went back into her room to doodle on her sketch pad and play with her cat.

Rhianna plays with her cat in her bedroom. She's sitting on a mustard yellow blanket with a laptop on her bed. Behind her is a geometric painted wall with triangles painted in various blues and yellow.
Rhianna is a budding artist who loves animals. She spends time designing animations on her laptop and caring for her cat, Heathcliff, two dogs and a hamster. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

Rhianna's father, Brian Alvarado, is an Iraq War veteran and neck and throat cancer survivor.

Like most kids, Rhianna has been stuck at home during the COVID-19 pandemic and attends school online. But unlike most other eighth graders, Rhianna is a caregiver, tending to her dad between her virtual classes.

Rhianna is among more than 3 million children and teens who help an ill or disabled family member, according to Caregiving in the U.S. 2020, a national survey published by the National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP. The survey also found that Hispanic and African American children are twice as likely to be youth caregivers as non-Hispanic white children.

Rhianna puts on clear, plastic gloves in preparation for hanging her father's trach tube. He sits next to her and watches as she puts them on.
Rhianna is learning how to change her dad’s trach tube. “I’m proud that she is feeling a bit more comfortable changing it,” Brian said, his voice almost inaudible. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

Carol Levine, a senior fellow at the United Hospital Fund, a nonprofit that focuses on improving health care in New York, said the COVID pandemic, combined with the worsening opioid epidemic, has increased the number of youth caregivers because more children are homebound and must care for ill or addicted parents.

The pandemic has also made caregiving harder for them, since many can no longer escape to school during the day.

"In school they have their peers, they have activities," Levine said. "Because of the contagion, they aren’t allowed to do the things they might normally do, so of course there is additional stress."

Rhianna watches her dad play a video game on a computer. Their backs are turned to the camera. In frame, you can see their home which is filled with sunflowers in a vase, photos of Rhianna and her dad, a shelf full of DVDs and vibrant throw pillows.
During a break from her online classes, Rhianna watches her dad play a video game. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

Levine was an author of a national survey in 2005 that found there were about 400,000 youth caregivers between ages 8 and 11. The survey has not been updated, she said, but that number has likely grown.

Kaylin Jean-Louis was 10 when she started doing little things to care for her grandmother and great-grandmother, who have Alzheimer's disease and live with Kaylin and her mother in Tallahassee, Florida.

Now 15, Kaylin has assumed a larger caregiving role. Every afternoon after her online classes end, the high school sophomore gives the women their medicine, and helps them use the bathroom, dress and take showers.

"Sometimes they can act out and it can be challenging," she said. The hardest thing, she said, is that her grandmother can no longer remember Kaylin’s name.

COVID has added another level of stress to an already complex situation, Kaylin said, because she can’t decompress outside the house.

"Being around them so much, there has been a little tension," Kaylin acknowledged. She uses art to cope. "I like to paint," she said. "I find it very relaxing and calming."

Kaylin's mother, Priscilla Jean-Louis, got COVID last month and had to rely on Kaylin to care for the elder women while she recovered.

"She isn’t forced to do it, but she helps me a great deal," Priscilla said. "If there are moments when I’m a little frustrated, she may pick up on it and be like 'Mommy, let me handle this.'"

Rhianna's dad, Brian, 40, never smoked and was healthy before joining the Marine Corps. He believes he got sick from inhaling smoke from burn pits during the Iraq War.

Brian, Rhianna's father, leans against a post in their home. He's standing with his arms crossed, wearing a red button up shirt. Behind him is an American flag wall piece.
Brian was diagnosed with cancer soon after returning from Iraq in 2006 and has breathed and been fed through tubes since 2015. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

He was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma of the neck and throat in 2007. He also has PTSD, an inflammatory disease that causes muscle weakness and a rash, and hyperthyroidism from chemotherapy and radiation.

Rhianna’s mom is Brian's primary caregiver, but Rhianna helps her change her dad's trach tube and feed him through a feeding tube in his abdomen.

"I'm still learning how to do it," Rhianna said. "I get nervous, though."

The two look after him on and off all day. "Our care for him doesn’t end," Rocio said.

Rhianna is quiet and reserved. She has autism, struggles with communication and has trouble sleeping. She has been talking to a therapist once a week.

The trach has had the biggest impact on Rhianna, because Brian doesn’t join them for meals anymore. "I feel sad that he can't eat anything," she said.

Despite the growing number of youth caregivers, they have little support.

"If you look at all state and national caregiving programs and respite funding, they all begin at the age of 18," said Melinda Kavanaugh, an associate professor of social work at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee.

Rocio helps her daughter, Rhianna, with online classes. Rhianna sits on her bed, topped with a mustard yellow comforter and her laptop opened in front of her. The walls of her room are painted in a vibrant, geometric pattern. Along her wall are various school supplies, books and other miscellaneous items.
1/4 Rocío Alvarado revisa el horario de clases en línea de su hija Rhianna, que incluye dibujo de animación, logopedia y clases de actuación. “Cuidar de su papá fue algo natural para ella”, dijo Rocío. “Es sobreprotectora y dejará de hacer lo que está haciendo para ver cómo está su papá”. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline
Rocio and Brian stand in the living room of their home. The walls are painted in a powder blue color. To the right, there is an American flag wall art. Above them hangs a "Happy Birthday" banner.
2/4 Rocío y Brian Alvarado llevan 14 años casados. Brian sirvió ocho años en la Infantería de Marina, alcanzando el rango de sargento. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline
A close up of Rhianna replacing her father's trach tube.
3/4 Brian apenas puede hablar desde que le practicaron la traqueostomía. “Cuando somos solo yo y Rihanna, tengo que pedirle a Rhianna que sea mi voz”, dijo Brian. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline
Rhianna massages the back of her father's head. Their backs are towards the camera and there is a clear view of their living room.
4/4 A Rhianna le gusta masajear la cabeza de su padre. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

Kavanaugh is researching Alzheimer's and caregiving in Latino and African American communities in Milwaukee.

"We had a number of kids who were much more stressed out because they had no outlet," she said. "Now they’re suddenly 24/7 care and there was absolutely no break."

Adult and youth caregivers often suffer from anxiety, depression and isolation, but there is little data on how caregiving affects young people over the long term, Kavanaugh said.

Connie Siskowski, founder of the American Association of Caregiving Youth, helped care for her grandfather as a child. "I was not prepared," she said. "It was traumatic."

A photograph of Brian looking at a picture of him and Rhianna when she was 3. The photo is shot over his shoulder.
Brian looks at a photograph of himself and Rhianna when she was 3. He’d already been diagnosed with cancer and had started chemotherapy. | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

Her Florida-based group connects young caregivers and their families with health care, education and community resources. The goal is to identify problems such as stress or isolation among the children, and address them so they won’t harm them as adults, Siskowski said.

But long-term care experts said caregiving can also enrich a young person’s life.

"It can help kids develop a sense of responsibility, empathy and confidence," Levine said. "The problem comes when their schoolwork, their friendships, their lives as a child are so affected by caregiving that they can’t develop in those other important ways."

Rhianna sits next to her father on the couch, looking over at his phone.
"I have told her that one day it will be her taking care of me," he said. "When I'm a lot older, to the point where I won't be able to care for myself." | Heidi de Marco/ California Healthline

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